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12 step candles

Item No. C1181-01

12 step candles - 2˝"x3˝", burns up to 45 hours

 

size: 2˝" x 3˝" pillar

 

price: $12.00 each

 

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Step 1 We admitted we were powerless over alcohol--that our lives had become unmanageable.

 

Step 2 Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

 

Step 3 Made a decision to turn our will and our lives

over to the care of God as we understood God.

 

Step 4 Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

 

Step 5 Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

 

Step 6 Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

 

Step 7 Humbly asked God to remove our shortcomings.

 

Step 8 Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.

 

Step 9 Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

 

Step 10 Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

 

Step 11 Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our constant contact with God, as we understood God, praying only for knowledge of God’s will for us and the power to carry that out.

 

Step 12 Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to others, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

 

color: white, with light blue and turquoise swirls

scent: mint & sage

gemstones: amazonite, blue lace agate

 

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About These Candles

As with most of my candles, I created these 12 step candles to light my own way, in this case through my recovery work. As I work each step, I will light a candle to help me connect with Spirit and pray for honesty, openness and willingness. I hope and pray they might shine on your path of recovery as well! Carla Blazek, creator, zena moon

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Our Recommended Books, Music & Movies for the 12 Steps of Recovery

zena moon sells books, CDs and DVDs in association with Amazon.com. To order, click on the item's title or image, then add it to your Amazon shopping cart. Orders are then filled and shipped by Amazon. Send us your recommendations for this page--we may post them here.

 

Last updated 1/4/2006

 

Icon  Books

1.  Alcoholics Anonymous - Big Book 4th Edition

    by AA Services (Paperback - 2002)

    Avg. Customer Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars

 

    From Amazon.com: For anyone struggling with alcoholism, this is the way to get sober.

    The principles of the program can--and have been--applied to just about any addiction. This program is the foundation of Cocaine Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous and every other 12 step program. This is where it all started.

My pastor mentioned in church just today how the spirituality of people who've been in 12 step programs is sometimes especially striking. That's true. It's because if a person follows the 12 steps, they will find it a life-changing experience. They will not be exactly the same person they were when they started. For more on this, see a passage in the book known in the program that took its name from the book's title as "the promises." If you read this book, also read the accompanying Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions. The two go together--though if you read only one, read the
Big Book. The newcomer might find the book somewhat dated. Stick with it. It's worth it. And, as time goes by, it will become clearer and clearer.

 

 

2.   A Woman's Way Through the Twelve Steps

A Woman's Way Through the Twelve Steps    by Stephanie S. Covington Ph. D. (Paperback - 2000)

    Avg. Customer Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars

 

    From Amazon.com: For over 70 years, 12 step programs have proved to be a highly

    successful means for recovery from a wide range of issues. But all 12 step programs are based on the 12 steps of Alcoholics Anonymous, an organization founded by men for men. Women have traditionally had difficulty fitting these steps into a recovery program that they can be comfortable with.

 

Stephanie Covington, Ph.D. addresses the difficulties women have with the traditional, male oriented, step language. Rather than alter the traditional 12 steps, she focuses on the healing message in the 12 steps using the original step language, making them accessible to women from a wide range of backgrounds. Each step is explored and the various issues and reservations women have with the 12 steps are addressed utilizing the experiences of women in recovery and how they came to terms with the difficulties that women often experience with the traditional 12 steps. Although the main thrust of the book is addiction, she carries over the ideas of the addictions based programs and looks at the experience of women in such areas as relationships, sexuality, spirituality and everyday life.

 

A Woman's Way Through the Twelve Steps is a comprehensive resource for women in recovery no matter what 12 step program they participate in. It is the rare woman that won't see herself somewhere in its pages and come away with something that can enhance her recovery.

 

 

3.  Drinking : A Love Story

    by Caroline Knapp (Paperback - 1997)

    Avg. Customer Rating:

 

    From Amazon.com: Knapp, a magna cum laude graduate of Brown University, journalist, and contributing editor to New Woman magazine, was not a stereotypical drunk. Instead, as a "high-functioning alcoholic," she kept her addiction--and hangovers--hidden. She never called in sick from too much liquor or drank on the job yet would imbibe night after night, lusting after the sound, feel, and camaraderie of booze. During her 20-year affair with alcohol, she led a double life, often sneaking shots at dinner parties or slipping into a restaurant bar for an extra round while her dinner companion thought she'd left for the ladies' room. "Beneath my own witty, professional facade were oceans of fear, whole rivers of self-doubt," she writes. Then she hit bottom and did a stint in rehab. AA meetings several times a week keep her sober. Detailing the reasons why she needed to medicate her feelings and the choices she has made to stay clean, Knapp offers, in well-crafted prose, hope for other women alcoholics desperate to stop drinking.

 

 

 

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1.   Higher Ground

    ~ The Blind Boys of Alabama (Audio CD)

    Original Release Date: 2002

    Avg. Customer Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars

 

From Amazon.com: On the follow-up to their Grammy-winning album Spirit of the Century, the three gospel-singing septuagenarians celebrate the holy side of secular songs in hopes of connecting with "the generations that are behind us," as founding member Clarence Fountain put it. Always alert to the potent message of God's mightiness, they exuberantly spiritualize the Stevie Wonder title track and Curtis Mayfield's "People Get Ready," as well as choice picks from the songbooks of Prince ("The Cross"), George Clinton ("You and Your Folks," grafted onto the 23rd Psalm!), Ben Harper ("I Shall Not Walk Alone"), and others (Harper guests on three tracks). A few uplifting traditional gospel numbers turn up, too. Throughout the program, Blind Boy Jimmy Carter's stirring tenor voice is a minor miracle. And "sacred steel" guitarist Robert Randolph and his Family Band are important to the success of the album, supplying genuine fervor to grooves that complement the elders' heaven-bound vocals.

 

 

2.   Share: Songs of Hope, Awareness & Recovery

    ~ Various Artists (Audio CD)

    Original Release Date: 2003

    Avg. Customer Rating: 5 out of 5 stars
 

From Amazon.com: This is a unique and compelling compilation album completely focused on sending a hopeful and encouraging message to those struggling with addiction. For years country music has been associated with alcohol. There are thousands of songs about a drinking away a broken heart, drowning your sorrows or throwing back a cold one, but never has the disease of addiction been so abundantly and so powerfully addressed as it is in Share. There are heartbreaking and thought-provoking songs performed by country stars such as Martina McBride with "Cheap Whiskey" and Travis Tritt with "No More Looking Over My Shoulder." The duet "I'm Trying" performed by Diamond Rio and Chely Wright is a powerful look into the struggle of addiction and the incredible will it takes to overcome it. I would highly recommend this album to anyone who has ever experienced addiction in any part of his or her life or just for anyone who has ever struggled. Share is truly inspirational and delivers a hopeful message.

 

 

3.   Ciao Monkey [IMPORT]

    ~ Herman Brood (Audio CD)

    Original Release Date: 2000

    Avg. Customer Rating: 5 out of 5 stars

    

From Amazon.com: This is yet again another hard hitting rock 'n' roll recording from the Dutch master himself. Lyrics like "I don't deserve to die stinking like this" relating to his problems with illness due to drug and drink excesses are certainly graphic. Herman was never one for pulling punches. The music is mostly hard rock with a couple of slower numbers thrown in. Herman made this his last album and brought his long musical career to an abrupt end when he jumped to his death in July 2001.

 

 

 

Icon  Movies

1.   28 Days

    Starring: Sandra Bullock, Viggo Mortensen

    (2000) ~ DVD

    Avg. Customer Rating: 4 out of 5 stars

 

From Amazon.com: To appreciate 28 Days, it's best to be thankful that director Betty Thomas hasn't forced Sandra Bullock into a remake of Clean and Sober. Instead Thomas has balanced her comedic sensibility with the seriousness of alcoholism and substance abuse, and she succeeds without compromising the gravity of the subject matter.

 

As played by Bullock, Gwen is an alcoholic in denial whose latest bender with boozer boyfriend Jasper (Dominic West) ruins the wedding of her sister (Elizabeth Perkins) and lands her in a month-long rehab program with the requisite gang of struggling drunks and junkies. Newcomer Alan Tudyk steals his scenes as a gay German rehabber who might've dropped in from a Berlin performance-art exhibit, and Steve Buscemi aptly conveys the weary commitment of a counselor who's seen it all. Thomas has surrounded Bullock with a sharp ensemble, and the addition of singer-songwriter Loudon Wainwright III (as a kind of Greek chorus crooner) is sublimely inspired. Certainly no surprises here--the warring sisters will reconcile, and at least one rehabber will fail to recover--but there's ample pleasure to be found in Bullock's finely tuned performance, and in Thomas's inclusion of flashbacks and tangents that add depth and laughter in just the right dosage.

 

 

2.   Drunks

     Starring: Richard Lewis, Parker Posey

     (1997) ~ DVD

     Avg. Customer Rating: 4 out of 5 stars

    

From Amazon.com: Who knew comedian Richard Lewis could act? There is no plot to speak of in this character study, which follows AA members who meet in a Times Square basement to bare their souls. The performances, however, are dazzling. A sparse plot follows Lewis through one dark, soul-searching night in which he questions his life, his choices, and his sobriety. The direction is minimal, but Faye Dunaway, Spalding Gray, Parker Posey, Amanda Plummer, Dianne Wiest, and Howard Rollins bring out the intense emotions and dark, bitter humor of Gary Lennon's play, Blackout. We could have used more time with all of them, however, as the only fully realized character is played by Lewis.

 

 

3.   Days of Wine and Roses

    Starring: Jack Lemmon, Lee Remick

    (1962) ~ DVD

    Avg. Customer Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars

 

From Amazon.com: Days of Wine and Roses is one film not to watch if you are melancholic by nature, as this tale of middle-class alcoholism rings very true. Jack Lemmon and Lee Remick are the besotted couple who find that life is not always fun when viewed through rosé-colored glasses. He's the San Francisco business executive who marries Remick and seduces her into a cocktail culture that soon overpowers them both. It is not a pretty picture when their life shatters around them, but this film is extremely compelling for their performances. It is matched only by Billy Wilder's Lost Weekend and the more explicit Leaving Las Vegas. This was nominated for five Academy Awards and won for the title song by Henry Mancini and Johnny Mercer. Filmed by Blake Edwards in 1962, it is based on a Playhouse 90 television production from 1958, starring Cliff Robertson and Piper Laurie..

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