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Item No. C1070-04

obelisk (not shown) - 3"x8", burns up to 80 hours

 

size: obelisk

 

price: $18.00

 

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quote on label:

"I'll walk where my own nature would be leading:

 It vexes me to chose another guide."

—Emily Brontë

 

color: white with orange swirls

scent: freesia & orange

gemstone: sunstone

 

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About This Candle

One afternoon I was in a business meeting listening to several very smart, talented, attractive 30ish women have a conversation about dating, and their desperation that they were nowhere near marriage. Now, even though I'm married now, I am a vicarious bachelorette. I wholeheartedly believe that life can be fulfilling flying solo. If I hadn't fallen in love with my now-husband, I would still happily choose the single life. So, clasping hand over mouth, I fled to my studio and created a celebrate being single candle, which has since become one of our most popular candles. That deserves a big hurray! The relationship we have with ourselves always comes first and if you're single right now, dang it, stop fretting and have some FUN with your single Self! Carla Blazek, creator, zena moon

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Our Recommended Books, Music & Movies That Celebrate Being Single

zena moon sells books, CDs and DVDs in association with Amazon.com. To order, click on the item's title or image, then add it to your Amazon shopping cart. Orders are then filled and shipped by Amazon. Send us your recommendations for this page--we may post them here.

 

Last updated 3/24/2005

 

Icon  Books

1.   Bachelor Girl : 100 Years of Breaking the Rules--A Social History of Living Single

    by Betsy Israel (Paperback - 2003)

    Avg. Customer Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars

 

   From Amazon.com: Journalist Betsy Israel paints remarkably vivid portraits of single women--and how they have been perceived--throughout the decades using primary sources, including private journals, newspapers, and other materials from popular media. From the nineteenth-century spinsters of New England to the Bowery girls of New York City, to the career girls of the 1950s and 1960s, single women have fought to find, and feel comfortable in, that room of their own. One need only look at Bridget Jones and the Sex and the City gang to see that single women still maintain an uneasy relationship with the rest of society -- and yet radiate glamour and mystery. Bachelor Girl shines a light on the stereotypes that have stigmatized single women and celebrates their resourceful sense of spirit, enterprise, and unlimited success in a world where it is no longer unusual or unlikely to be unwed.

 

 

2.   Oh, Solo Mia! : The Hip Chick's Guide to Fun for One

     by Wendy Burt, Erin Kindberg (Paperback - 2001)

    Avg. Customer Rating:

 

   From Amazon.com: Oh, Solo Mia! is the essential guide for all women in search of ideas for entertaining themselves after wearing out the resources of the neighborhood Blockbuster. Oh, Solo Mia! offers more than 100 creative ideas with attitude for swinging single chicks. Inspirations range from the cheap and tame to the chi-chi and daring, and all are guaranteed to provide hours of entertainment for girls (of all ages) who just wanna have fun!


 

3.  Journal of a Solitude

    by May Sarton (Paperback - 1992)

    Avg. Customer Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars

 

   From Amazon.com: A wonderfully prolific poet, novelist, memoirist, and journal-writer, May Sarton has always enjoyed an extremely wide and loyal readership. Though she considered poetry to be her life's work, it was her novels and journals that made her famous. Plant Dreaming Deep, a memoir published in 1968, tells the story of her decision at forty-five years old to buy a house in a small New Hampshire village and to live and write in it alone. Journal of a Solitude, the first of a series of journals about her life in a different house on the Maine coast, brought her many new readers--particularly women--who identified with her efforts to carve out and describe a life of chosen solitude in all its rewards and contrary vicissitudes.

 

 

 

Icon  Music

1.   Saturday Night Fever: The Original Movie Soundtrack [SOUNDTRACK]

    ~ Bee Gees (Audio CD)
    Original Release Date: 1996

    Avg. Customer Rating: 4.3 out of 5 stars

 

From Amazon.com: The double-disc soundtrack to the blockbuster Saturday Night Fever (available on a single CD) marks both the zenith and the nadir of disco. It was such a popular sensation that it catapulted the music to stratospheric levels of mainstream popularity, and the album was the bestselling movie soundtrack of all time (until The Bodyguard, and then Titanic). But "Disco Fever" became so hot, it could only flame out just as quickly (along with the careers of the Bee Gees). With this record, disco became a phenomenon and a fad. The Bee Gees' contributions are the strongest, especially the once-ubiquitous "Stayin' Alive" and "Night Fever," and they still hold up. Then there's Walter Murphy's "A Fifth of Beethoven," a trivial piece of pop ephemera that may have set new standards for ephemeral triviality. How often will you listen to this record--and how much will you play when you do? There's no telling--but it remains a classic piece of pop history, and when you're in the mood it's a good thing to have around.

 

 

2.   The Beekeeper (Special Limited Edition) [LIMITED EDITION]

    ~ Tori Amos (Audio CD)

    Original Release Date: 2005

    Avg. Customer Rating: 4 out of 5 stars

 

From Amazon.com: After Scarlet's Walk, Tori Amos' 2002 ambitious sonic travelogue that took her to all 50 states, penning love letters to America along the way, the fiery earth-sprite has fashioned another concept album, tying her 19 songs--and one not-so-hidden track--into a garden motif that's part a retelling of Alice In Wonderland, part Little Shop of Horrors. The Beekeeper chronicles her rather autobiographical protagonist's journey through what seems to be an overgrown labyrinth of the subconscious as she experiences a series of life-altering events and emotions. In addition, living in Cornwall for the past decade has certainly had an effect on Amos, she even takes inspiration from Daphne Du Maurier's classic novel Jamaica Inn, which takes place on that rugged seacoast, but the greatest change is the grit in her voice; on a song like "Hoochie Woman," she sounds like she's channeling Chrissie Hynde--a welcome change from some of the preciousness of her earlier work. She also surprises with the steely, eloquent resolve on a song like "Goodbye Pisces" one of the better break-up songs in recent memory. The Beekeeper returns the quirky singer to the same whimsical terrain of 1992's Little Earthquakes, but with much stronger storylines, and a much more assured and nuanced voice. Her best yet.

 

 

3.   Devil's Playground

   ~ Billy Idol (Audio CD)

    Original Release Date: 2002

    Avg. Customer Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars

    

From Amazon.com: This is a terrific album that just explodes with energy. You can hear a little bit of Billy's Generation X work and a little bit of Rebel Yell, but it doesn't sound dated. He sounds great, Steve Stevens remains one of the best guitarists on the planet, and Keith Forsey producing is always a recipe for success. If you ever have the chance to see Billy Idol live, he's terrific.

 

 

 

Icon  Movies

1.   Closer

    Starring: Jude Law, Clive Owen, Julia Roberts, Natalie Portman

    (2004) ~ DVD

    Avg. Customer Rating: 4 out of 5 stars

 

From Amazon.com: Four extremely beautiful people do extremely horrible things to one another in Closer, Mike Nichols' pungent adaptation of Patrick Marber's play that easily marks the Oscar-winning director's best work in years. Anna (Julia Roberts) is a photographer who specializes in portraits of strangers; Dan (Jude Law) is an obituary writer struggling to become a novelist; Alice (Natalie Portman) is an American stripper freshly arrived in London after a bad relationship; and Larry (Clive Owen) is a dermatologist who finds love under the most unlikely of circumstances. When their paths cross it's a dizzying supernova of emotions, as Nichols and Marber adroitly construct various scenes out of their lives that pair them again and again in various permutations of passion, heartbreak, anger, sadness, vengeance, pleading, deception, and most importantly, brutal honesty. It's only until you're more than halfway through the movie that you'll have to ask yourself exactly why you are watching such a beautifully tragic tale, as Closer is basically the ickiest, grossest, most dysfunctional parts of all your past relationships strung together into one movie. Ultimately, it falls to the four actors to draw you deeper into the story; all succeed relatively, but it's Law and Owen whose characters will cut you to the quick. Law proves that yet again he's most adept at playing charming, amoral bastards with manipulative streaks, and Owen is nothing short of brilliant as the character most turned on by the energy inherent in destructive relationships--whether he's on the giving or receiving end.

 

 

2.   Living Out Loud

     Starring: Holly Hunter, Danny DeVito

     (1998) ~ DVD

     Avg. Customer Rating: 4.4 out of 5 stars

    

A zena moon Essential Movie

From Amazon.com: The original title of Living Out Loud was The Kiss, which also happens to be the title of one of the two Anton Chekhov stories the movie is loosely based on. (For those Russian lit mavens out there, the other story is "Misery.") The actual kiss in Living Out Loud is a somewhat mysterious affair: newly single Judith (Holly Hunter) suddenly finds herself laying a wet 'n' sloppy one on a total stranger (Elias Koteas, Hunter's Crash costar) in the back room of a cool jazz club, and then parting ways with the man. For good. Like so much of this exceptionally smart, generous movie, no explanation is given--or necessary. Screenwriter Richard LaGravenese (The Fisher King), making his directing debut, charts Judith's struggles in the wake of being dumped by her doctor husband (Martin Donovan). It turns out life has its ups and downs, some of which come courtesy of the elevator operator (Danny DeVito) in her swanky Upper East Side apartment building. DeVito's character is a nice guy in need of a little human touch, and the actor soft-pedals his usual sleaze in favor of a warm, directly emotional approach. It's the kind of turn that garners Oscar nominations, except that this movie didn't attract the box office it deserved. His performance, like the film, keeps surprising you--a fantasy sequence here, an ensemble dance there, plus a couple of smoky jazz tunes contributed by Queen Latifah. This unpredictable movie has the kiss of class.

 

 

3.   Sex and the City - The Complete First Five Seasons (5-pack)

     Starring: Sarah Jessica Parker, Kim Cattrall, Cynthia Nixon, Kristin Davis

     (2003) ~ DVD

     Avg. Customer Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars

    

From Amazon.com: Before the sixth season started in the summer of 2003, a bombshell hit: it was announced that this would be the finale. Fans, just getting over the truncated fifth season (due to half the cast getting pregnant) were beside themselves. But it would be a long season, and these 12 episodes plant the seeds for the final 8 airing the following winter. These dozen episodes illustrate the maturity of the show: there's not a bad one in the bunch, with things like old flames Mr. Big (Chris Noth), and Steve (David Eigenberg) popping in with deeper resiliency. And the show is still flat-out funny. Berger is the most intrinsically humorous of Carrie's beaus (his introduction to Prada is a classic), Jarrod's earnest streak on Samantha gets her flabbergasted in the giddiest ways, and Charlotte's attempt to convert to Judaism is right in character. The touchstone episode is "A Woman's Right to Shoes," in which Carrie loses her prized and expensive Manolo Blahniks at a party. The comedy blends serious points of how we perceive singles, couples, and parents (and the gifts we lavish on the latter two). Carrie's method of celebrating her singlehood is just another gem in this treasure of a series.

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