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Item No. C1065-04

obelisk (center) - 3"x8", burns up to 80 hours

 

size: obelisk

 

price: $18.00

 

  other sizes available:

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quote on label:

"You  may be deceived if you trust

 too much, but you will live in torment

 unless you trust enough."

—Frank Crane

 

color: light purple with purple swirls

scent: lilac & lavender

gemstone: blue lace agate

 

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Our Recommended Books, Music & Movies for Trust

zena moon sells books, CDs and DVDs in association with Amazon.com. To order, click on the item's title or image, then add it to your Amazon shopping cart. Orders are then filled and shipped by Amazon. Send us your recommendations for this page--we may post them here.

 

Last updated 4/7/2005

 

Icon  Books

1.   Broken Promises, Mended Hearts: Maintaining Trust in Love Relationships

    by Joel D. Block (Paperback - 2001)

    Avg. Customer Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars

 

    From Amazon.com: Even the strongest relationship can be eroded by common, everyday breaches of trust. A small lie about a purchase, a cover-up for a forgotten birthday--each takes a bite out of trust. Over time, intimate confidences are weakened and the foundation of trust begins to crumble. It is Dr. Block's firm belief that when couples feel emotionally safe with each other, their relationship is more passionate, open, uninhibited, and sexually alive.

Filled with inspiring case studies from Dr. Block's private practice, this book offers couples an innovative, solution-oriented approach to restoring trust and repairing love relationships shattered or eroded by betrayal. Includes chapters covering:

  • Recognizing the Signs of Trust . . . and Mistrust

  • Dance Away Lovers: The Trust-Mistrust Relationship

  • Jealousy, Lover's Hell

  • The Frontier of Trust: Sexual Fidelity

  • Restoring Trust

"Through a spirited, imaginative exploration of love relationships, Block develops a useful roadmap for those who want their relationship to be meaningful." --Daniel Acaoz, founder, American Journal of Family Therapy

 

 

2.   The Horse Whisperer

    by Nicholas Evans (Paperback - 1998)

    Avg. Customer Rating: 3.5 out of 5 stars

 

    From Amazon.com: Breathtaking, tragic, compelling, and inspirational, all these words and more can't describe the amount of significance that The Horse Whisperer endures. Nicholas Evans produces a very touching and moving novel, which has rendered the lives of many horseback riders. What starts out as a lovely, fresh and crisp winter morning, quickly turns into a gruesome meet with a large transport. Two girls who didn't thing to check the trail before their ride had paid the price, Judith and her horse died, while Grace and her horse Pilgrim, had suffered incredibly with broken bones, ligaments and predominately scarring their heart and soul. Tom Booker, the whisperer, is kept much a secret through the entire story. His thoughts and feelings are subliminally placed in every chapter that he was present, and more and more is revealed about his character in each one; thus giving the reader a challenge to figure out what he's really like. The Horse Whisperer is filled with subliminal messages, which provokes an excellent in-depth read through all of the twists and turns of the novel. A well-constructed story that fills in many gaps the movie couldn't cover.

 

 

3.  Trusting Yourself: How to Stop Feeling Overwhelmed and Live More Happily With Less Effort

    by M. J. Ryan (Paperback - 2004)

    Avg. Customer Rating: 4.6 out of 5 stars

 

   From Amazon.com: Everyone feels overwhelmed by life’s increasingly dizzying whirlwind, believes Ryan: we all worry that we can’t keep up with our to-do lists or avoid the messages from media and advertising telling us that our homes aren’t fancy enough, our teeth aren’t white enough, or our parenting skills aren’t good enough. It’s no wonder, she says, that many people today turn outward for help, seeking advice from friends, the Internet, talk show experts--anyone who will help them keep up with the world around them. However, the real problem is not that people are inadequate, says Ryan, but that "we seem to have lost the sense of ourselves as reliable sources of the wisdom we need to navigate through our lives." Instead of looking to others, she says, people in fact have the power to help themselves--simply by trusting themselves. Ryan (The Power of Patience) instructs readers how to learn the attitudes and behaviors that encourage self-trust and lead toward a happier, more peaceful life. In a cozy, inviting style, she draws readers into her asset-focused approach with friendly advice, anecdotes and exercises. By focusing on what is right and strengthening that quality, we will, she promises, find that life is more fulfilling; we can learn to realize our talents and accept our shortcomings. For worry-freaks, perfectionists, those who just can’t say "no," or those stuck in stale careers or unhealthy relationships, the book is particularly refreshing. Ryan is neither overbearing nor preachy, but instead allows readers to make their own connections to her words.

 

 

 

Icon  Music

1.   Deadwood: Music From HBO Original Series [EXPLICIT LYRICS] [SOUNDTRACK]

    ~ Various Artists (Audio CD)

    Original Release Date: 2005

    Avg. Customer Rating: 4.0 out of 5 stars

 

A zena moon Essential CD

From Amazon.com: The West of veteran TV writer/Deadwood creator David Milch is as grim as it is gritty, sprinkled with salty dialogue and punctuated by sudden brutality and raw sexuality. The original soundtrack cues by composer David Schwartz (represented here by his evocative show theme), Michael Brook and Reinhold Heil and Johnny Klimek play off that vision with often stark rootsiness. But it's the series' rich slate of songs--choices whose inventiveness often rivals that of The Sopranos--that consistently reinforce its all-too-human drama, if not the crusty veneer. This collection gathers the best songs from the series' first season, coloring the milieu with evocative hillbilly romps like Michael Hurley's "Hog of the Forsaken" and the a capella grace of Margaret's Native American "Creek Lullaby." But the collection's musical eclecticism stretches far beyond mere genre concerns, variously encompassing the nascent jazz of Jelly Roll Morton (a rollicking "Stars and Stripes Forever"), Delta blues of Bukka White and Mississippi John Hurt and even Gustavo Santaolalla's hypnotic Brazilian fretwork. But the collection's country and folk-tinged performances are its most resonant, whether invoking earthy traditions (the gospel fervor of the late June Carter Cash's "Will the Circle Be Unbroken," Sonny Terry & Brownie McGhee's more heretical "God and Man") or more contemporary stylings like Lyle Lovett's "Old Friend" and the gentle "Twisted Little Man" by Michael J. Sheehy.


 

2.   Who Can You Trust

   ~ Morcheeba (Audio CD)

    Original Release Date: 1996

    Avg. Customer Rating: 4.7 out of 5 stars

 

From Amazon.com: Who Can You Trust is the perfect CD to listen to while relaxing with some candles and incense burning. However, it's far from sedate. The sometimes trippy, other times upbeat music, paired with the awesome vocals and lyrics are the perfect fit for a chill evening or background music for many activities... If you're sick of the radio and talentless pop, this is a great alternative. Music for those who actually listen. Check out the sample tracks, you'll like what you hear.

 

 

3.   Only Trust Your Heart

    ~ Diana Krall (Audio CD)

    Original Release Date: 1994

    Avg. Customer Rating: 4.7 out of 5 stars

 

From Amazon.com: Diana Krall, here with her first GRP album, expands on the delights that populated her 1992 debut, Stepping Out. Again, her talents are simply remarkable: she sings with feeling, emotion, and nuance--she invests a lyric with believability--and plays marvelous piano, no matter the tempo. The program pleases on so many levels: slip the disc into the player, hit any track at random, and you'll be moved. Take the oh-so-slow, heartfelt groover "Squeeze Me," on which her alto is both breathy and demonstrative and her accompaniments are sly, and which features a winsome solo by bass maestro Ray Brown. On another gut-wrenching crawler, "All Night Long," Krall tears you up with her emotive, intimate vocal, interspersing her singing with telling, shimmering piano notes, then delivering a solo full of wry confidences. The succulent title track is a deliciously slow bossa where Krall's vocal is partly whispered, as if sung in your ear. More upbeat is the finger-popping "Is You Is or Is You Ain't My Baby," where the artist sings with grit and life then solos with an economical drive. Tenor saxophone giant Stanley Turrentine adds a trademark saucy improvisation. "I Love Being Here with You" is a romping shuffle where Krall's voice hits some notes on the head and stretches others like pulled taffy. "Broadway" is another vibrant outing that includes a singing, fat-noted solo from bassist Christian McBride and Lewis Nash's deft brush work. Aces all around.

 

 

 

Icon  Movies

1.   The Thomas Crown Affair

    Starring: Pierce Brosnan, Rene Russo

    (1999) ~ DVD

    Avg. Customer Rating: 3.9 out of 5 stars

 

From Amazon.com: For the Hollywood remake rule, which dictates that an update of an older film be inferior to the original in almost every aspect, The Thomas Crown Affair stands as a glorious exception. The original 1968 film, starring a dapper Steve McQueen and a radiant Faye Dunaway, was a diverting pop confection of mod clothes and nifty break-ins, but not much more. John McTiernan's new version, though, cranks up the entertainment factor to mach speed, turning what was a languid flick into a high-adrenaline caper romance. Thomas Crown (Pierce Brosnan) is now a man of industry who likes to indulge in a little high-priced art theft on the side; Catherine Banning (Rene Russo) is the insurance investigator determined to get on his tail in more ways than one. If you're thinking cat-and-mouse game, think again--it's more like cat vs. smarter cat, as both the thief and the investigator try to outwit each other and nothing is off-limits, especially after they start a highly charged love affair that's a heated mix of business and pleasure.

 

What makes this Thomas Crown more enjoyable than its predecesor is McTiernan's attention to detail in both the set action pieces (no surprise from the man who helmed Die Hard with precision accuracy) and the developing romance, the witty and intelligent script by Leslie Dixon (she wrote the love scenes) and Kurt Wimmer (he wrote the action scenes), and, most of all, its two stunning leads (both over 40 to boot), combustible both in and out of bed. Brosnan, usually held prisoner in the James Bond straitjacket, lets loose with both a relaxed sensuality and a comic spirit he's rarely expressed before. The film, however, pretty much belongs to Russo, who doesn't just steal the spotlight, but bends it to her will. Beautiful, stylish, smart, self-possessed, incredibly sexy, she's practically a walking icon; it's no wonder Crown falls for her hook, line, and sinker. With Denis Leary as a police detective smitten with Russo, and Faye Dunaway in a throwaway but wholly enjoyable cameo as Brosnan's therapist.

 

 

2.   The Pledge

    Starring: Jack Nicholson, Robin Wright Penn

    (2001) ~ DVD

    Avg. Customer Rating: 3.5 out of 5 stars

 

From Amazon.com: Jack Nicholson is detective Jerry Black, a respected and well-liked veteran of the Reno police force retiring to a life of angling with more than a little apprehension. Thus he jumps into a murder case, the slaying of a little girl, a mere six hours from retirement and makes a promise to the grieving mother to catch the killer. As his partner (an effectively abrasive Aaron Eckhart) squeezes a confession out of the severely mentally handicapped suspect (a thoroughly unsettling performance by Benicio Del Toro), Jerry is convinced that they've got the wrong man.

 

As in Sean Penn's previous work, this is an actors' piece. Nicholson plays Jerry with restlessness under his easy-going, smiling calm; his patient fisherman's heart leaps at every nibble while he casts for a murder suspect. And Del Toro, Helen Mirren, Vanessa Redgrave, and Mickey Rourke make striking impressions in their single-scene appearances. Penn is less concerned with the mystery than the emotional turmoil and Jerry's state of mind, interrupting moments of calm with jagged cuts and discomforting images (including some especially disturbing crime scene photos). Jerry's instincts and methods are sound and his sensitivity is real--he takes in a battered single mom (Robin Wright Penn) and her little girl, and develops a rewarding family life--but his passion for justice turns to unhealthy, destructive obsession. That's ultimately what we're left with at the conclusion of this often off-putting but ultimately fascinating film. The truth will not always set you free.

 

 

3.   Memento

     Starring: Guy Pearce

     (2000) ~ DVD

     Avg. Customer Rating: 4.3 out of 5 stars

 

A zena moon Essential Movie

From Amazon.com: Guy Pearce (L.A. Confidential) and Joe Pantoliano (The Matrix) shine in this absolute stunner of a movie. Memento combines a bold, mind-bending script with compelling action and virtuoso performances. Pearce plays Leonard Shelby, hunting down the man who raped and murdered his wife. The problem is that "the incident" that robbed Leonard of his wife also stole his ability to make new memories. Unable to retain a location, a face, or a new clue on his own, Leonard continues his search with the help of notes, Polaroids, and even homemade tattoos for vital information.

 

Because of his condition, Leonard essentially lives his life in short, present-tense segments, with no clear idea of what's just happened to him. That's where Memento gets really interesting; the story begins at the end, and the movie jumps backward in 10-minute segments. The suspense of the movie lies not in discovering what happens, but in finding out why it happened. Amazingly, the movie achieves edge-of-your-seat excitement even as it moves backward in time, and it keeps the mind hopping as cause and effect are pieced together.

 

Pearce captures Leonard perfectly, conveying both the tragic romance of his quest and his wry humor in dealing with his condition. He is bolstered by several excellent supporting players, and the movie is all but stolen from him by Pantoliano, who delivers an amazing performance as Teddy, the guy who may or may not be on his side. Memento has an intriguing structure and even meditations on the nature of perception and meaning of life if you go looking for them, but it also functions just as well as a completely absorbing thriller. It's rare to find a movie this exciting with so much intelligence behind it.

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